Many times there is more then one possible solution to a problem or an issue. People may not even agree on what the problem is. Life is complicated, and different people see things in different ways. But they still have to live together, and often they have to figure out how they can come to one conclusion even though they disagree. Dialectical thinking is a method people can use "to work things out".
You are doing dialectical thinking when you have an argument with yourself about something in your head. Without putting any fancy words to it, when you argue with yourself you do something like this:
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Independent learning: Becoming aware of your own thinking: |
What you are actually doing when you think this way: |
How an essay would look if you used the system of dialectical thinking to handle an issue: |
| Having an Argument with Yourself | Dialectical Thinking | A "Both Sides" Essay |
| You want to do something very badly. | Dialectical thinking begins by understanding that most situations are complicated and often you want two opposite things at the same time. |
Paragraph 1:
This is an introduction explaining briefly to your reader what the essay is about. |
| So you imagine how wonderful it would be to do it in a certain way. Let's call that A. | 1. Everyone has a point of view that may be right or wrong. |
Paragraph 2:
Here you explain the position you are going to take on an issue. I believe that ... |
So you think of:
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2. We had better check it out to see whether our point of view is any good. |
Paragraph 3:
This paragraph is the "same-side" argument which outlines logically all the reasons supporting the position you are taking. |
| Suddenly something else comes along that you could do at the same time with the same money. Then it hits you that maybe A wouldn't be such a good idea after all. You become very interested in this new thing; let's call it B. | 3. Dialectical thinking means that we cannot ignore or pretend that other ways of doing things do not exist because they do and they might be better than we first thought. |
Paragraph 4:
This is the "other-side" position on the issue you are discussing in this essay. |
| Having an Argument with Yourself | Dialectical Thinking | A "Both Sides" Essay |
So now you think of:
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4. The second view like the first view also needs to be checked out to see if it is any good. |
Paragraph 5:
Here you outline logically all the reasons supporting that position. (To be fair it is important that you give all the reasons there are and write this side as if you believe it.) |
Now you have to make a choice. What are you going to do? This is where you need to do some hard thinking (scheming?):
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5. This is the crunch part of the dialectic where you compare each view and its supporting reasons and try to decide which is better. You can do this by asking yourself the kind of questions in the left column. |
Paragraph 6:
This is your concluding paragraph in which you examine both sets of reasons and then explain why you reached the conclusion(s) that you did. |
| Finally you might end up saying something like this: A looks really great, and I wish I could do it, but I think I'm going to go with B, or vice versa. | 6. Finally you make up your mind. If you're lucky maybe you can figure out how to get both things at the same time, or maybe you can find a way to get as much as possible while giving up as little as possible. |
In the conclusion of a "both-sides" essay you can do three basic things:
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There is a concept map of the dialectical thinking process on the next page. This is another way of explaining how we decide what to think when things contradict each other.
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If someone comes to you and tries to get you to believe something, how do you decide whether to believe it or not? Often you are being told one thing by someone and another thing by someone else. When people are trying to be convincing, they are always tempted to tell you things in a way that makes their point of view look as good as possible.
For example, how many times have you told your parents a story using only certain pieces of information, which you have carefully arranged to get Mom and Dad to believe what you want them to believe? Do you say things like, "All the other kids are doing it," even though you know that's not completely true?
| Tricks People Use to Slant the Story | Things You Can Do to Protect Yourself |
1. Probably the most basic tricks are to:
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1. The fundamental things to always, ask yourself:
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| 2. The next most frequently used trick is to select words which will influence people's emotions. Saying communists are "evil", for instance, rather than "different". People often use very emotional words rather than neutral, descriptive words. | 2. Look at whether the words being used are very emotional in some way and mentally try to replace them with more neutral words. How much difference does this make to what the writer/speaker is saying? |
| 3. A favourite trick is to attack another group as being terrible in some way rather than dealing with the issue(s). "So and so is a racist, power hungry pig", etc., rather than saying "I disagree with her/him because of..." People do this when they know their point of view is weak. | 3. As soon as someone starts to "name call" your suspicion antennas ought to be working overtime. Something is wrong somewhere. |
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Making Mistakes in Logic
People make mistakes in what they are saying because they are human and are either simply wrong or don't know how to make a logical argument. Many of the following errors are like that. |
Watching for these Mistakes
You need to know some ways of testing an argument so that you don't get caught by the mistakes of the speaker or writer who is trying to give you a viewpoint. |
4. When people really believe something, they often don't really worry about whether they are being logical. What can happen is that:
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4. Don't just accept logic, think about it. For example, is it true to say:
Watch the logic, it can fool you. Mentally put a question mark (?) behind these statements because they may not be true. |
| 5. People will often believe that the facts they are using to support their conclusions are relevant when they are not. For example, some famous person argued that television programming was responsible for the Los Angeles riots. Television may actually be irrelevant here. | 5. Ask yourself whether it is realistic to believe that one thing is a cause of another thing. It is easy to be fooled and one should always be sceptical about cause and effect. Things are not always what they seem to be. Seeing is not always believing. This applies particularly to things you see on TV. |
| 6. People who really believe something may have given up being critical about what they believe. So they think their conclusions are good for everything and everybody. |
6. There are some tests you can apply to conclusions you are being asked to accept:
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7. People will often try to be convincing by:
| 7. Be suspicious when you are not getting the other side of the story. If the issue is a long- standing one and is not resolved over time, then there are likely two strong points of view on the issue. Find out what the missing one is before you make up your mind. |
| 8. People who believe something strongly may have stopped looking for creative, better solutions that may be available. |
8. When you look at someone's conclusion, make sure that:
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People who have studied problem solving a great deal suggest that it is helpful to do the following things when you are faced with a problem.
Often people spend time and energy trying to solve the wrong problem and then find that either they can't solve it or they are unhappy with the results.
If you don't, you may find that the results you get are not what you want.
You can first try a solution out by discussing it with someone else. If you are still satisfied after your discussion, you can be reasonably certain the solution is right for you.
It is important to ask yourself some really basic questions:

Usually the end result of problem solving and dialectical thinking is a decision. We all have to make many decisions in our lifetime. Some of them we do quickly in the course of an average day. Others are bigger and have more serious consequences for us if we do not make a good decision.
For instance, what career are you going to select?
This is typical of life's decisions: not enough information, many different alternatives to choose from, and serious consequences if the wrong alternative is chosen. So we all have an interest in learning how to make decisions effectively.
Good decision-making models are based on common sense:
| Decision Making | Things to consider in making a Decision |
1. Get as much information as possible by:
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1. Make sure that:
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2. Make an informed decision by:
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2. Think about:
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3. Design and carry out an action plan by:
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3. Now you are ready to make a decision by picking the alternative that seems:
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4. Evaluate the plan by:
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4. Effective planning means that you:
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5. It is critical to the success of any plan to know what is going on.
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Humans are not always reasonable people. In fact when we are upset, worried, frightened, distrustful, or angry, we can get stubborn and nasty. This is especially true when we have to solve a problem or make a decision about something we care about very much.
When dealing with people, it is important to remember that it is easier to avoid a conflict than to fix one after everyone is upset. Avoiding conflict involves being concerned about other people's feelings in the same way you would like them to be concerned about your feelings. If you approach people in an open, friendly way, they are likely to respond to you in the same way and are much more likely to be agreeable and easy to work with.
Steps in working out conflicts